Are adult videos/porn videos only for men?

My sex counsiler had told me that this kind of videos are created for men.


Then us women shouldn't watch them?


I am 30's.


I think some women are interested in watching them.


And if you are a mom of a young daughter, don't you want her to watch porn videos, even if she wants to watch?


Is it taboo for us women to watch such videos?


Please, only serious replies.


This has been bothering my mind and I am now asking you seriously.


Thank you.

Are adult videos/porn videos only for men?
no it's not
Reply:Your sex counsellor doesn't sound very qualified. Plenty of women watch porn. Plenty of porn is geared toward women, as well--lesbian porn, and feminist/progressive porn that trumps the usual degrading cliches.





In some ways, it is still taboo for women to embrace their sexuality, but that's only due to social conditioning by a patriarchal society. It shouldn't be taboo at all, and we women are free to watch whatever we please.
Reply:Generally that is the way But women are not tabooed not to watch. Have to add that Man have two heads and the other one watches more porn ;-)
Reply:Adult movies, magazines included, seem like they are targeted mainly for a male audience but they're not just for men to watch and read.





I'll be honest - even though what is being portray is rather fake - I read Hustler, Playboy, etc. and I watch the occasional adult video either by myself or with my husband because it spices up the bedroom....heck - we even download 5 a day! And it's absolutely not taboo. It turns people on, and it can help a relationship get back from being celibate to promiscuous.





On the mother's perspective, I cannot say anything because my husband and I have no children. But, given the options of my daughter having sex to watching the occasional pornography because she's curious to what it's about - I'd have to go with the porn.





If you want to watch a porn, or read a nudey magazine - then by all means, go for it...in moderation. There's no law stopping you from doing so.
Reply:I don't think you should expose your daughter to pornagraphy. You said she was a young girl. As for you, I think some women like to watch some don't. But sex I think,(my own personal opinion) is suposed to be special and shared with your lover. I think that porn can turn into a problem. Some men become addicted to it and in return are no longer attracted to their partners and even find it difficult to become sexually aroused by just their spouse. I think that porn has destroyed so many couples and caused alot of problems for young boys. I am in no way judging you at all and I hope you can figure out what you think is right or wrong. Good luck!!
Reply:they are not created for men only ...they are created for every1 so dont listen to him...u can watch .





About the other question....well hmm i dont know what would i fo if my daughter would want watching porn videos coz i dont have a kid yet but i think i would say no her ..till she reaches 18 lets say .. im not sure coz im not a mom yet
Reply:Your counsiler is stupid! she sounds like an ignorant sexist
Reply:your sex counseler probably meant that (most) porn is mainly targeted for a male audience since it is usually about degrading women sexually which is not acceptable to me, yet irl a lot of men like this for all the wrong reasons. If you like to watch how women get degraded, then I find that weird. If you think a lot of women don't watch it, because it is a taboo for them, then I think you're wrong. A lot of them don't like to watch it, because it is not a turn on for them or they don't want to be turned on by this (because of the degradation of women). I don't think you should show your daughter this stuff either, since this is not what I consider healthy sex. There should not be a taboo on sex either, but why expose your daughter to violent sex like porn? Sex is either based on love or not. If it is not, then it is a form of sadomasochism like in porn. Your daughter doesn't need to watch porn, in order to have a taboofree relationship with sex, quite the contrary.





Allthough there is some interesting porn out there where the roles are reversed and women **** men and the men like to be humiliated by women. If you want to expose your daughter to porn anyway, then choose the latter form.
Reply:Why are you seeing a sex counsellor? Do you have some personal issues around sex that need help with?


If you are a grown woman and wish to watch porn, that is absoultely fine. I watch it with my man from time to time to get us both in the mood. I would not recommend exposing your daughter to it, if she is young it will give her a warped impression of sexual love. let her discover it for herself when she is older.
Reply:whoa, whoa, whoa!!! that sounds like a crappy counselorl... adult videos are for men AND women......i definately like watching them every now and then..
Reply:Your sex counselor told you that women SHOULDN'T watch them. Sounds like your "counselor" is sorta dumb.





There are plenty of women that watch porn, some watch with their partners, some watch alone, it really depends on the person.


Men probably do look at porn more often than women, statistically speaking, but that's because of how men and women become sexually aroused. Men, are typically more visual, they want to see stuff, and women are a little more analytical about it.


That's why women read romance novels, and men look at Playboy.


But, there's nothing wrong with women watching and/or looking at pornography and enjoying it.